Why Josh is now helping other Grove Cottage members dream big and fulfil their potential
Earlier this year, Josh reached out to our fundraising team, eager to contribute his ideas and efforts to raise funds for Grove Cottage and sustain the incredible support the charity provides.
Grove Cottage, where our members are always at the heart of everything we do, enthusiastically embraced the opportunity to involve Josh. We were compelled to share his inspiring story, presented in his own words with the assistance of his sister, Mel.
“I’m Josh, and I’m 26 and a half years old. I have Down Syndrome and special needs, and I have been part of the wonderful Grove Cottage family since I was just three years old. I still look forward to attending our clubs every week.” Josh expressed. “Grove Cottage means the world to me. It’s not just a charity; it’s a place that has always had my back. They’ve been there to support me, to care for me, and to be like a second family to me. I can’t thank them enough”.
Josh took centre stage as the Grove Cottage Elf extraordinaire at this year’s Reindeer Run. Not only did he kick off the festivities alongside The Mayor, Cllr Richard Townsend, and present awards to the 1st Family to Finish and the largest participating family, but Josh, joined by Grove Cottage friends Annette and Mina, also challenged himself to complete the full 5k.
His journey holds particular significance, as Josh revealed, “During the tough days of the COVID-19 lockdowns, my mental health took a hit, and it left me with anxiety that I still deal with today. My mum gave me some advice in 2021, telling me to be more of a helper to others. I took that to heart.
With the love and support of Grove Cottage, I get the chance to try new things and rebuild my confidence. Now when I’m at Grove Cottage clubs, it’s not just about what I learn; it’s about how I can support others with my knowledge and my positive personality. I have introduced and led meditation sessions within our groups which are a safe space, surrounded by friends who make me feel at home. It’s my way of helping others find peace and comfort and it calms my anxiety too.”
Looking ahead, Josh has ambitious plans. “I have big dreams. I want to own my own house and make my family proud. With the support of Grove Cottage, I believe I can achieve these goals.”
When asked what he would like people to do upon reading his story, Josh quickly replied “I want to ask for their help. To donate to Grove Cottage to support people like me who live with learning disabilities and special additional needs, as well as their families. Even £1 helps. It means a lot to us who go to Grove Cottage.”
To contribute to Grove Cottage, please visit https://www.mencapgrovecottage.org/events/support-grove-cottage-this-christmas/ and brighten Josh’s day.
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Harry is 21 and has a genetic condition which causes developmental delay. He has been coming to Grove Cottage since he was a young child and now attends our Get Active Club and Music Man Project.
Ruth has been attending Grove Cottage for 11 years. She first joined the Nursery when she was only one and moved onto the Saturday and Holiday clubs once she went to school full time. Ruth’s mum, Kate, says, “Ruth has Down’s Syndrome, with its inherent developmental delay. Although now at secondary school, Ruth is more akin to a reception age child in terms of interest and ability.
Abbey attends our Cottage Crew Club and Holiday Clubs. She loves Grove Cottage, meeting with friends and all the staff. Her favourite activities are baking, creative crafts and trips.